Love is an attraction, feelings and deep emotion and deeply
involvement in thoughts regarding a person, thing and self. Some are mad after
reading novels, some are busy in collecting newer things and some are exploring
new discoveries etc…different people have wide variety of craziness but all
those behavior are supposed to be aligned with constructive approach and
healthy effects. We must be in love with our own interest, passion and hobbies.
These are truly known as self-love and self-improvement. It is well said that loving self has no side effects but loving
others has huge adverse effects. If you are in love with your passion and
interest, its outcome is definitely lots of glory and success. Most of the time
in our society, we stupid are busy in thinking and appreciating others for
their attitude, beauty, richness and attractiveness. During this span of time,
we negotiate with our own possibility of being outstanding in our objectives.
We compromise a lot in our life for impressing our beloved other than parents
or self. This leads to the improvements of others while belittling self. Once
we start neglecting us, our own activity softly invites us to the
self-destruction and prohibits us to reach at our destination. Loving self is
the need of the our because it ensures success sure. Being a marketing guy, I
always appreciate SWOT analysis.SWOT analysis not only useful for marketing but
it is potentially useful for self-analysis and self-development. Strength
always brings opportunity and opportunity often brings success. Weakness always
welcomes threats and threats are the best friends of the repeated failures.
There are so many people always repent for repeating same mistakes for years
and years. Let me cite an example of my present arena of experience. One of my
friends was having strength in mathematics and another one was good at English.
When both of them were preparing for banking together in a library…Weak in math
started focussing in math by the help of the strongest one of math but
ironically weak in English became busy in assisting his friend without
focussing in English. So he failed tremendously due to his lack of love to
himself. He did not succeed as he failed to give attention to his own problem.
It is important to pour the water of love and affection on self than to spend
on others. I don’t mean to be self-centered completely rather helping self-first
than dreamed princes or prince of our life or so called best friends. Our life
will be charmless, once we fail to script our own success story. Everybody in
this materialistic society wants to be associated with the people who are
superior and intelligent. When we fail to impress others, we will be past for
them. In this article, I would like to reflect the attitude of the young stars.
Strangers are becoming friends, Friends are being converted to lovers and
lovers are converted to strangers in the cycle of true love story where they
are committed to die for each other and valid for each other for the seven
lives. If this is true, then why is there break up, divorce or extramarital
affairs? Simply we fail to love our self.when we fail to take care of self, how we
can love our partner. We become worried in satisfying all the needs of our
girlfriend rather than our own needs to survive. It is deadly sure that once one dose not beautify oneself, the
consequences would be tragedy. Let us care our own passion so effectively that
we cannot believe its potential miracles. As all of my articles are based on my
own experience, I must share my own story here.In 2014 RBI Grade B written
test,I failed in English miserably and scored zero.Later on, I realised that
the process of my preparation in banking English is completely wrong. So I
realised that understanding is more crucial than grasping mere grammar. So I
started a special English group with a minimum fee and started analysing THE
HINDU paper and enhanced my understanding.Though during this process, I got
less amount of fee from students as the owner of the institute took the maximum
remuneration out of this without even giving the single pie of the photo copy
and other expenses. But the reward of all those exploitation leaded to me an
outstanding achievement of scoring 37 out of 40 in IBPS English clerical exam
and also scoring 20 out of 22 attempts in IBPS PO.It is definitely an
unforgettable memory of my life. This time, I may get job or not, but my
self-introspection and self-analysis have given me enough courage to manage my
weaker subjects with a proper strategy further. So it is clear that if there is
a will, there is definitely a way. But we need to understand our self and
appreciate our own capabilities. The letter I,ME AND MYSELF is quite important in deciding our fate.
So dear friends, Love yourself so
much that your life will be full of happiness, success and miracles. Be
dynamic, don’t be static.
Lovely yours,
Dr(prof)Rajib kumar
Jena(Affectionately called by friends)
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