Life
is
really a toughest one after resigning a job where someone was a star performer
and was getting incentives more than salary. Even the company was an Mnc.
Despite the request of all the superior authorities including regional manager
not to quit but left to pursue my dream of being associated with a public
sector unit. While leaving the job, it was an advice of my friend Pradip sir in
Fm Competitive, Balasore that life is not as easier as it seems to be after leaving
a better position but I dared to do so. I started attending the classes in f m
competitive but after one month I became a teacher in English for competitive
students. Life really became happier after returning to the student life. As I
started reading with the group, started to be associated with all the
struggling people together. It was not a group but a bond of relationship was
built up. But in this span of time, a group of friends in our group including
me left Fm Competitive and joined The Almighty.The brand ALMIGHTY institute of
Banking –Committed to delivering excellence was my brain child. Though Rohit
invested money but I invested my valuable time and ideas to make it a
competitive hub.I did the right marketing of the institute by teaching to the
students with my best efforts.Gradually it did excellent business and I took
additional responsibility of offering mock interview classes .Infact my first
student for mock interview was Arpita who is serving now now in Mahila cooperative
Bank in Balasore.I slowly earnt the fame of being the best interview trainer in
Balasore for the students and got good volume of students and did my job for my
passion of serving the struggling people in the most crucial juncture of their life.
In between this toughest time of myself and others, I got a student named Panda
Didi. I am not mentioning the exact name as I don’t want to disturb the any
body’s personal life but the fraud student of mine will understand it without
mentioning her name directly. One day she came to Almighty and asked about the
course fee and started bargaining for fee but I did not accept that. But
unfortunately our director took her admission. So I started giving training to
the group of interview aspirants by putting my best by my own style of teaching
and completed the training session. So IBPS PO and Clerk interview completed.
The real cheating and emotional drama started on the day of completion of ibps
clerk exam. I received a message from Panda Didi that I deserve all the credits
for her good performance in her IBPS clerk interview on 14th feb
2015 approximately around 12.30 pm while I completed my interview for ibps
clerk in the same day. A new relationship started that is so much caring and
sharing. so many sms per day about breakfast, lunch and dinner etc but it did
not last long. Suddenly this emotional drama was postponed after six months. It
was a great shock for me to manage myself as I was never in such fake
relationship in my life. So gradually I focused on my preparation .It was my
stupidity to accept again to this selfish when odisha gramya bank interview
call letter came to her and she started approaching me. I had learnt that if
somebody has cheated once, definitely she will try to cheat again but being
honest I accepted and took her mock interview and started preparing together
for IBPS in junior library of The Almighty. Again wats up started and she
shared everything, even her technical issues but it continued up to her joining
as po in OGB.One day she told me not to wats up her but she will wats up me
when she will get her time but she started ignoring me after getting job. It
was really a mental shock for me and took huge time to get rid of all the past issues.
Even I can remember she did not even gave her math copy to me for my
preparation despite her commitment to give me. I was betrayed like never before
in my life. Even there are so many instances and incidents I don’t want to reveal.
Only she will understand if she goes through this article. Though we are still
in touch rarely but it was a great lesson I cannot forget in my life. “It
is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.” William Blak “If you spend your time
hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart,
then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.” ― Alder.
Though that incident made me harassed but I did not lose my hope and did my
preparation continued.It was just one chapter of betrayal and breach of trust.
Now let me describe regarding the exploitation I did encounter. I was exploited
by The Almighty .My own creation made me stuck in the half way and lost all the
hope of building up any other institute but did not lose my hope. I did build
up The Alchemist again and proved my mettle but cannot forget the horrible
incidents in the Almighty. The institute was established to give the best
quality to the students and unique amenities in the library. It continued for
almost one year but later on everything got reversed. The director changed his
approach and became commercial in approach.The vision of the institute got destroyed.I
was engaged in publicy, branding, discipline and strategic management. Even I
did naming this institute. Started teaching English and taking interview
classes for the students. So many students got benefit out of my service and I
was the pioneer in the IBPS Interview in Balasore.Neither I got my exact
remuneration nor I got share as a partner for my time and intelligence.I have
taken almost minimum five hundred classes in class room and library.I did also
maintain junior library and brought up it into the number one library in Balasore.
But my dream did not last long as major participants of the institute were busy
on doing love management and had taken institute as a platform for time pass
and girl friend management. I was shocked and felt exploited to be in such
organization whose vision was diverted. This was not even noticed by the silent
senior spectators. At last I was forced to leave my brain child The Almighty.
These are really a leaf of my memories. Last but not least is the humiliation
during preparation for Banking. Life was not as comfortable as it was while in
job with bike always in each and every time where interested to move but when
came into preparation with a cycle handed over by Mr.Rohit, it was really a
humiliating experience but a testing time for a real taste of the life.
Everybody used to humiliate me. Even I felt like not attending any family
functions or going to meet any friends because everybody had a habit of asking
about current status after completing PGDM from a leading B School. Even I had
a working experience of 3 years before coming to prepare competitive examination.
I was a subject of laughing object in my village. The biggest tragedy was for
my father who was always sad for my position. He was also not able to move
freely because he was also unhappy to share my condition to his colleagues and
friends. The biggest snub was in Aditwiya academy where receptionists
misbehaved me like anything where I was supposed to be a faculty. The biggest
surprise came when my father decided my marriage while I had lost my all the
hopes of getting a job. I used to be humiliated by my relatives and even by the
relatives of my inlaws.Even my father in law was facing challenge of tying the
knot to a jobless boy for his daughter.But after all, my wife sumi became lucky
for me to delete my name from unemployed list and a man of humiliation.
So success does not
come so easily and it does not have any short cuts. It is a combination of hardwork,
failure, betrayal, humiliation and so many exploitations.
Success consists of going from failure to
failure without loss of enthusiasm. Winston Churchill
There are no secrets to success. It is the
result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.
So let us be happy and pursue for happiness. Leave everything
to god. He will definitely help us when we are helpless and hopeless. Forget
and forgive the selfish and exploiters but be careful to these idiots who will
try to enter in to your life in any time to cheat and exploit you.Beacause it
is a life lesson as I am getting to see these stupids are still not satisfied
of cheating and still trying to enter in to my life.
“Happiness
is a butterfly, which when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but
which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.” —Nathaniel Hawthorne
Thanking you,
Best Regards,
Rajib kumar jena
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