Saturday, March 14, 2015


Dear Blog Viewers,

Love is an attraction, feelings and deep emotion and deeply involvement in thoughts regarding a person, thing and self. Some are mad after reading novels, some are busy in collecting newer things and some are exploring new discoveries etc…different people have wide variety of craziness but all those behavior are supposed to be aligned with constructive approach and healthy effects. We must be in love with our own interest, passion and hobbies. These are truly known as self-love and self-improvement. It is well said that loving self has no side effects but loving others has huge adverse effects. If you are in love with your passion and interest, its outcome is definitely lots of glory and success. Most of the time in our society, we stupid are busy in thinking and appreciating others for their attitude, beauty, richness and attractiveness. During this span of time, we negotiate with our own possibility of being outstanding in our objectives. We compromise a lot in our life for impressing our beloved other than parents or self. This leads to the improvements of others while belittling self. Once we start neglecting us, our own activity softly invites us to the self-destruction and prohibits us to reach at our destination. Loving self is the need of the our because it ensures success sure. Being a marketing guy, I always appreciate SWOT analysis.SWOT analysis not only useful for marketing but it is potentially useful for self-analysis and self-development. Strength always brings opportunity and opportunity often brings success. Weakness always welcomes threats and threats are the best friends of the repeated failures. There are so many people always repent for repeating same mistakes for years and years. Let me cite an example of my present arena of experience. One of my friends was having strength in mathematics and another one was good at English. When both of them were preparing for banking together in a library…Weak in math started focussing in math by the help of the strongest one of math but ironically weak in English became busy in assisting his friend without focussing in English. So he failed tremendously due to his lack of love to himself. He did not succeed as he failed to give attention to his own problem. It is important to pour the water of love and affection on self than to spend on others. I don’t mean to be self-centered completely rather helping self-first than dreamed princes or prince of our life or so called best friends. Our life will be charmless, once we fail to script our own success story. Everybody in this materialistic society wants to be associated with the people who are superior and intelligent. When we fail to impress others, we will be past for them. In this article, I would like to reflect the attitude of the young stars. Strangers are becoming friends, Friends are being converted to lovers and lovers are converted to strangers in the cycle of true love story where they are committed to die for each other and valid for each other for the seven lives. If this is true, then why is there break up, divorce or extramarital affairs? Simply we fail to love our self.when we fail to take care of self, how we can love our partner. We become worried in satisfying all the needs of our girlfriend rather than our own needs to survive. It is deadly sure that once  one dose not beautify oneself, the consequences would be tragedy. Let us care our own passion so effectively that we cannot believe its potential miracles. As all of my articles are based on my own experience, I must share my own story here.In 2014 RBI Grade B written test,I failed in English miserably and scored zero.Later on, I realised that the process of my preparation in banking English is completely wrong. So I realised that understanding is more crucial than grasping mere grammar. So I started a special English group with a minimum fee and started analysing THE HINDU paper and enhanced my understanding.Though during this process, I got less amount of fee from students as the owner of the institute took the maximum remuneration out of this without even giving the single pie of the photo copy and other expenses. But the reward of all those exploitation leaded to me an outstanding achievement of scoring 37 out of 40 in IBPS English clerical exam and also scoring 20 out of 22 attempts in IBPS PO.It is definitely an unforgettable memory of my life. This time, I may get job or not, but my self-introspection and self-analysis have given me enough courage to manage my weaker subjects with a proper strategy further. So it is clear that if there is a will, there is definitely a way. But we need to understand our self and appreciate our own capabilities. The letter I,ME AND MYSELF is quite important in deciding our fate.

So dear friends, Love yourself so much that your life will be full of happiness, success and miracles. Be dynamic, don’t be static.

Lovely yours,
Dr(prof)Rajib kumar Jena(Affectionately called by friends)

Sunday, January 4, 2015


Dear Blog viewers,
Wish you a happy and prosperous new year 2015.It is all most more than one year I have not been reachable to you all for a serious and genuine mission. But I am back to be in your touch. This article is going to be published on my current experience on the last few years on the competitive studies for BANKING, SSC, RAILWAY and others. This is a big exposure of current scenario of competitive institutes after so called devastating chit fund industry in our countries.All the competitive institutes are the part and parcel of the service industry. The way chit fund industry played the game with futures of the people in the same way all the institutes are killing the career and life of the students. Let me start sharing my experience of this industry of just more than one year. I am not going to mention any institute’s name but definitely going to reveal the secret of cheating to the students. Once upon a time, most of the low scoring students used to prepare for the competitive industries but the current flow has been diverted to the new direction. All most all branches of the students have surrendered their own branches and joined in the preparation of the govt. jobs due to current job scarcity and instability. The most significant factor for cracking govt job is all about grasping the basic concepts of reasoning, mathematics, banking awareness, current gk,traditional gk computer fundamentals and other matters seriously. Next factor is strategical strength for the preparation. One needs to have idea regarding speed and accuracy. All these things need to be introduced by coaching institutes to the students systematically within the time frame. There is no difference between a sales man and the director of an institute. The basic instinct of today’s sales man is to sale products by misguiding the customers and telling the lie. In the same manner so called reputed coaching heads are preaching to the students regarding their services which are supposed to be given by them but exactly they don’t provide. When a student asks about the lack of classes in the particular subject, for example computer, the director asks to first clear all the installments. So when installment is paid in full, the authorities behave with the students as if the student does not belong to the institutes. So friends, it is genuine to consider these looteras as sales of the most interesting facts about all these idiots are that no body of them have been successful in any of the exams they have faced during their preparation. They have come to this business by chance but not by choice. Every segment of business has different strategy and different styles but the style of the teachers and teaching is all most same by these people. Is it possible to teach English in a same style to a student of ssc and banking? The biggest mistake is to introduce English school teachers to teach English in competitive who has never faced any exams of banking, ssc or railway etc? They teach only English grammar to the student as per their style and pattern of the school. But the syllabus is absolutely different for different exams. Even different exams students are imparted same syllabus in a single class room.Becaus the shop keeper of the competitive shop does not have the idea regarding the requirements of the students as their basic motto is to earn money not to satisfy the needs of the students.It is a tragedy to see the diversification of some computer and other institute to teach competitive whose core area of expertise is different. If a bus business owner wants to establish an engineering college, you can imagine what would be the effect?If a chit fund failure lootera agent starts imparting banking coaching who does not have the capability to teach a single subject to the students,then just imagine the quality of their services? Even this is not sufficient about these dalals.Let me share you some more interesting facts about these future spoilers of the students.If a director of an institute drinks with students and visits to the girls hostel in an unconscious state of mind to guide the girls in night how to crack the banking exams, then just think about attitude of these future murderer of the students. Due to this kind of mismanagement, it takes four to five years for a student to succeed or even some cases; their age gets expired to get a job. Some of the Directors are busy in calculating about their revenues earned but ignores to make faculty payment. If a faculty does not get his due payment in time, will it be possible to teach effectively and carefully? Interview training for personal interview is given by the experts who have never faced the banking interview and those provide interview for private jobs are employed to teach the students how to crack the IBPS PO in the style of the corporate style. Is it not a crime to misguide the students who are jobless and job strugglers? These are just the smallest revelation of the truths of the self-declared directors of the competitive institutes. Now it will be my honour to share the etiquettes of the competitive teachers. A teachers job in competitive is not to just cover the syllabus rather to inspire students how to manage their stress and motivate them strategically to crack the exams efficiently but the present teachers of this industry are busy in playing cards with the students, drinking wines and eating meats in regular interval basis. I feel ashamed of this category of teachers who are darkening the future of the students in spite of knowing the complexity and length of the syllabus of the students. It is the time to describe about the real criminals of future destruction. You all will be definitely surprised to know the names of real criminals responsible for this kind of irresponsible mistakes. The most important criminal is none other than the aspirants of the competitive exams. Attending coaching classes has been a style and drama for the students. They have taken it as a platform to seduce the girls and to enjoy their coaching life. They just come to classes for passing their times and running after butterflies. Even I have seen some students to cut their hands to prove their degree of the love to impress the lady partner. These job seekers forget their intention and discover themselves in the world of merrymaking and picnics. It is a high time to kill the killers of our future. We just don’t need to blame the directors, teachers but we need to rectify ourselves from a live disaster. Because the students are the biggest murderer of their own and parents dream.
Be careful before your life is spoiled.

This article is published not to hurt anyone but to make all the culprits conscious about their wrong doings which may force them to pay huge price in present and future also.
I extend my heartfelt gratitude to my friend saktisadhana for her inspiration to start blogging again after a long interval.

Thanking you all,
Truly yours,
Dr.Rajib (Affectionately called by friends)

Sunday, June 30, 2013



Dear Blog viewers,

Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value.  Quotations on Integrity by Albert Einstein. Success definitely kisses the feet of those who are really passionate and dedicated towards their assigned goal. It is obligatory for success to give it’s sweet taste to the real deserving person who does not believe in day dream but in absolute action. There are different kinds of actions which may be ethical or unethical, humiliating or respectable. Everybody is earning money but it is important how one is earning. What is the medium of earning? Money may offer wide variety of material pleasure but it cannot always fetch peace and respect. It is a moral crime to sell the dignity at the cost of money. Money may work certain extent of life for accomplishing desires but it cannot be the sole priority of life. It is important to consider the job which considers you as a priority not as a mere option. It is a disaster to carry on the career  where employer can terminate you without any further notice but you cannot complain as they are employer. It is a snub to be killed in each and every moment even being alive. There is no need of such kind of job which is full of humiliation and mental disruption as well as moral distraction. It is really amazing to stick to heart not mental persuasion. Winners don’t wait for chances, they take them. So i did quit my job which bestowed with me so many things but failed to give me the mental satisfaction and did not permit to stay me with pride and mental virginity. I was successful in Meyer organics due to hard work and honesty. It gave me handsome salary but could not provide me the mental justice. I started working really very hard and working according to the directions provided by the company which made me successful. But it is a matter of regret that my hard work was not recognized absolutely as it should have been. The biggest hindrance was the nature of the duty and high risks of travelling. Customer relationship management is important but it should not be at the price of one’s self-esteem and morality. Inspite of being attached to a MNC ,but there was mere respect and sense of self satisfaction. So it is better to be jobless than to be mentally raped each and every moment which snatches away the mental tranquility. It may or may not be wise to take such decisions while having so much money to be repaid to bank for educational loan. But it is a high risk taken by my life to challenge myself once again and time has approached to test myself. I am prepared to compete with myself judiciously. It is not only a shock to my superiors where i was working but a calamity for my immediate boss. They persuaded me like anything to get back but i was absolutely determined in my predestined strategy. Let me utilize best resources and talents of myself at max for two years. I believe in actions not in the word wars. It is true that i kicked out the lucrative salary but have started the mission of accomplishing the best and last job hunting in my life. It is the high time not to look back but to move ahead in the most adventurous destinations of my life.

Sunshine may be late but sunset is sure.

Let me challenge my destiny once again.

Thanking you all,
Daringly yours,

Dr Rajib(Affectionately called by friends)

Friday, November 2, 2012


Dear Blog viewers,
                                It is true that
                                          “Your beliefs become your thoughts,
                                             Your thoughts become your words,
                                             Your words become your actions,
                                             Your actions become your habits,
                                             Your habits become your values,
                                             Your values become your destiny.”
                                                                                                        ― Mahatma Gandhi
The basic difference between a failed person and a successful one is the cultivation of good and bad habits. Everyone has specific some sorts of habits which have been regularised since a long time. But after a long period of time, those habits become as usual activity of a person but he fails to understand that it was only built up by himself or herself. A new habit becomes the as usual habit of a person after the systematic and scientific practices. So everybody has got the specific objectives in life but may not the stagnate one. But we have unlimited wants and limited resources. If one goal is accomplished, then another goal comes and stands in front of us. So a wise person holds those targets of life as per the priority. Thus each goal is accompanied by specific regular activities. Those activities may be new and difficult one but it becomes a tiny one in front of the deadline. These are basically mentality and deapth of the necessity. One can achieve it if one has the strong passion and burning desires to find the destination. So it is rightly told that “Just do it! First you make your habits and then your habits make you!” ― Lucas Remmerswaal, The A-Z of 13 Habits .So we should start beginning whatever we desire to do, it may be good or bad. It depends on our decision and what we want to do. We must take initiatives to be habituated with undertaken new habits to knock the door of the ambition. “We become what we repeatedly do.” ― Sean Covey, The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Teens. It is absolutely true that we become what we repeatedly do.Repetation of an activity in a regular mode is called a habit. If we make irregularities in our actitivity,it cannot be converted in to habit. "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but habit.Aristotle.Lets know how to break up bad habits and form good habits as well as how to form next new habits to move ahead in life without remaining complacent with one mission. So it is rightly stated that "A nail is driven out by another nail. Habit is overcome by habit."Desiderius Erasmus. There are so many people surrounded by so many virtues and evils. If we would like to delete a wrong habit one, we have to take up a good habit to nail out the wrong one .The most unique aspect of my blogging is about sharing my own experiences and wisdom.Once upon a time in my very early school days,i was associated with worst friend circles and involved with so many wrong activities. I had to pay the price of demotion in my studies and deprived of getting first division only due to the lack of seven marks.Every body was shocked at my home.Then i changed my school and study place. The most important fact is changing my persisting regular activities. Though it took some months to recover but i succeeded in my determination by nailing the bad habits with the acquisition of good virtues. Let me share another experience about losing my blogging since a long time. My asbm room mate, room no 1030 and Hostel no 10 reminded my blogging while just having his kind attention on my blog out of his busy schedule. He is none other than Mr, Dr.Love guru Niel.I had really procrastinated my one of the best When i started blogging, it became a titanic issue and took much time to draft an article. But i am sure that it is going to very smooth. There was a time while i was not good enough in writing. But only blogging helped me to reshape my writing skills. So my desire of being a good writer became successful only by adopting good habits like blogging. So this is how habit habituates the destination of life. Let me give another example of Dr..Niel.Dr.Niel was having so much expertise in IT. He was an instructor of computer classes. He achieved the intelligence and knowledge in IT after his spontaneous and regular practice in the area of his destination.I am confident that he has having more skills in IT than our so called IT Profs in ASBM.The most important fact of Dr.Niel is his habit of finding out so many tricks on love management.He has been a perfect love manager as per his regular research on different aspects of love.I can throw a challenge that my best room mate ever seen in my hostel life can publish book on love and romance management.His regular invention has made him an efficient master.This called the habit of creating destination.  It is last but not least example. It is my pleasure to introduce Mr.Nihar Ranjan Mohanty, My best friend. He is the most perfect example for this article. When we joined Asian School Of Business Management, Bhubaneswar, we are instructed not only to speak in English only but also to have so many assignments .English was taken as first language in ASBM campus.Mr.Mohanty was not that much fluency in English but he took the initiatives of having practice in hostel. He formed a group named as Finishing School in hostel and electrified enthusiasm among our group to have practice for GD,PI and many more activities which were still dancing in my memory. He not only limited in having practice in group but also used have practice in night 12 am in top floor of our hostel. Everybody was astonished after few months of his practice and fluency in English. That was outstanding experience of my life. So it is true that habits habituate destinations.

                                  “Sow a thought, and you reap an act;
                                   Sow an act, and you reap a habit;
                                   Sow a habit, and you reap a character;
                                   Sow a character, and you reap a destiny.”
                                                                                                    ― Samuel Smiles
So friends, please take care of our habits and your habits will take care of your destiny.
This blog is dedicated to my best room mate in hostel life Mr.Niel for reminding me to restart my passion of blogging as i had postponed my habit of writting since may,2012 and also i may remind to my viewers that this blog was created by Dr.niel in ASBM.
Thanking you,
Best regards,
Dr Rajib(Affectionately called by friends)

Thursday, May 3, 2012


Dear friends,
A Friend in need is a friend indeed. Friendship makes prosperity more shining and lessens adversity by dividing and sharing it. But it is found that friends are making the prosperity more worst and doubling the adversity by being selfish during difficulties. It is really crucial to have a friend in every body’s life. Human being is having full of emotions and thoughts which need to be shared and cared properly. But one needs to have a friend who understands each and everything of his friend. Because what ever cosmopolitan we may be..Still parents and family members have failed to understand us effectively. It is observed that very few parents have understood their childrens.If we turn over the pages of mythology….we can get the example of best friends is krushna and sudama.Any one can understand from krushna and sudama about the reality of the best friendship. But the question arises, is there such kind of relationship exists right now? I think not at all for the present time. I always love to share my own experience with my blog viewers to give the reality to my article..Because anything which comes from our heart can reach to every body’s heart. I used to believe that best friends are the part and parcels of our life but it has been contradicted in many circumstances. It is clear from my experience that we are the best friend of our self.It may not be inferred to all bonds of relationship but from reality  point of view, no body is our friend, we are only  friend and best friend  of our self. The world has been materialized. Every body believes in materialistic attitude. Emotion is less but imagination of getting more from friends are sky kissing.According to the opinion of a great person “oho God save me from my friends, I will take care of my enemies”. Friends are like gun, you don’t know when they will shoot you. Let me share my experience regarding my friends. While I was in my graduation, I was passing through a golden era of my life. I was very good in study as well as co-curricular activities. But the day I got a friend who turned in to my girl friend in later on became the real demon of my growth and development. She left me after exploiting me as her level best. There are also so many incidents which would be a novel of my life regarding my friendship and love .I can at least mention one thing that if she had been my best friend and loved one, she would not have done such pretention with me. Some people may not accept this logic but they will realize the essence of this matter later on. I will be happy to mention the most recent experience of accident not the incident regarding a friend who misbehaved with me like anything. One of my very close friends had come to her home after long time from Hyderabad. She wished to meet with us all in our town and we also met with her. But we had decided to have tour to the most beautiful place of our town. But unfortunately my AFM changed his plan and started working with me. So I could not get time to spare with my friends and I just had got 15 minutes to be with them even after my busy schedule. As I was feeling guilty for not being involved with them….so after completing my official task, I went to meet with her at her home but the way she misbehaved with me…I could not sleep that night. If she had been my good friend, she would not have behaved like that. If I start narrating all the experience, it would be a book. So it is better to give enough time to our self than the so called best friends. We need to analyze our self properly than what friends are eating and wearing. We can be the best critic of self. Most of the time we ask decisions from our friends but they give decisions as per we want. There is nothing great in it. Some group of friends are there to give ideas for our failure as the earliest. But inspite of chatting and gossiping if we spend time for our self development, we will reach in a great height of our life. So be the best of the self…..and be the best friend of the self.

Thanking you,
Best regards,
Dr.Rajib (Affectionately called by friends)

Friday, November 18, 2011


Dear friends,

It was rally a wonderful experience of having a trip to the soil of the Mahatma Gandhi and the city of the chief minister Norendra Modi. Though my plan was not successful but got a golden opportunity to have a look on the city. It was really a wonderful city which is ahead of so many so called metros of India interms of education, nonviolence, industrialization, honesty, no cheating as well as theft cases. Because this city is still having the impact of Mahatma Gandhi in the mental horizon of the common people of the Gujarat. Let me start my tour from my initial journey from Khurda to Ahemedabad junction. It is true that I was absolutely nervous for such a long distance new journey. My friend Durga injected confidence within me before starting my journey from the khurda station. By the way of my journey, I got my co-passenger surjit  and got so much idea regarding the predestined city as well as regarding the ideas of how to publicize my blog. It was really great pleasure to be associated with him in the long journey. I reached in Ahemedabad in the morning of the 9th Nov; 2011.I was completely surprised and frightened to see the new location which was beyond my imagination. Though it was difficult to get the address of the Troyikka pharmaceuticals ltd office but after a bit enquiry I reached there.We were introduced with each other and interacted about the company and packages. We were instructed to get into the office premises for the document verifications and appearing for the final interview. My final interview was resumed but I cold not tackle with absolute confidence.But I came to know another tragedy that an ultimate guy was selected but I was not informed regarding the fact. I was kept in waiting for the next day but I got some good friends in hotel. It was nice evening at adi and we went to a mela where small kids were encouraged a lot regarding the co-curricular activities. The small kids were really fantastic in their approach and attitude towards doing the new things. But I reached at hotel and got some Oriya guys and was quite excited to get them together but it was a bitter experience. The chap was very overconfident and behaved with me as if he is the ceo of any company. He was sent to interview venue in the substitution with me. I was really upset while knowing the tragedy created by the higher authorities of the company. The next day I visited to the head office for the decisions taken by the management. But I was really shocked with the decisions given by them. Though I was depressed but I had got good friend like jaswant. It is my privileged to mention the name of my best friend who has been a guiding force for me since the inception of the ASBM days. Actually I was instructed by the zonal manager to get back to office but they denied for the final recruitment. I was absolutely frustrated what to do and how to get back odisha as I was completely new for the city. But my best friend none other than NIHAR who saved me also in that city. I felt confident while nihar introduced his Ahmadabad friend amit.Though I could not get the job but I got nice person like amit who helped me like anything. I am really grateful to him forever. Then I tried to search my class mates in the gandhian city. But my friend niel(my room mate) informed me about my PGIB friend Manoj.Manoj is really a fantastic and helpful guy who picked me from the salt lake. I was really impressed with the help of manoj and his two dadaji’s.They were really great. I got my ticket in tatkal on 10th nov, 2011 from adi to hwrh.Even I got the auto driver who was very much nice person. My train pourabandar to Howrah express reached at 11pm.I got into the train and assisted by one Gujarati who was another nice character in my story of life@ahemedabad. As my ticket was on tatkal waiting list,I had no option to seat or sleep but the uncle offer his seat for me…it was really a great support from his end till the howrah.He was absolutely a kindhearted person. At last I spent my one day staying at jay’s residence and I talked with full heart with my friend after a long time. Though my trip was having bitter experiences, but it was a venture and great experience of my life.

Thanks to all my dear and near ones for their ample support during the staying at Ahmadabad.

Best regards,
Dr.Rajib kumar jena
(Affectionately called by friends)

Tuesday, October 25, 2011


Dear blog viewers,

It is well said that jack of all trade is master of none. Some of the egoistic persons or professionals think that as if they know every things of the every dynamism of business, society, economies of country, Human resource management, marketing management, Training and Development, Operation and many more aspects of the business. Some of the business tycoons of our country proclaim themselves as if they are the store house of all the growth and sustainable development strategy of the organization. Every corporates main theme of the business is the customer who is the king in the market place. This is true but significant truth is the employee satisfaction. It is important that customers should be given maximum priority but it does not mean at the cost of the employee exploitation. There are so many organizations in our country that creates their own policy instead of sticking to the labour acts. Standard operating procedures are prepared for Human Resource Management for the benefits of the organization at the cost of avoiding the proper leave policy, salary structure, employee welfare and in time release of salary as well as compulsory overtime duty. Even this policy has been applicable to all the departments for the maximum benefit of the organization.Unethics has been a prime business of the hour. There are so many organizations who are utilizing unethical business procedures to optimize the short term profits but they are forgetting long term sustainability in the world of corporations. Even it is a matter of the regret that so many business analysts are forgetting the importance of the quality control. But they shout a lot in the corroborate meetings that they are having one quality for the entire group of the customers in the world. But the truth is using expired reagents for the operation. Where so many times it is seen that huge difference in the result among the other competitors.Stingent actions is taken for the fault of the employees, franchisees but no action is taken against so called management. My blog readers will be surprised that management is none other than one person in a reputed limited company.Inspite of having good amount employees, managers, so many departments, complexed organizational structures but centralization is adopted since the inception. It is a matter of surprise that every rule is changed to exploit employees but authorities are not given in the hand of the highly paid managers. Even general manager’s decisions are abused in so many times as jack of all trade is master of none.Even it is a truth that an undergraduate become one of the board of members without understanding the abc of the operation. Leading corporaions like Wal-Mart and Nike have paid huge price for employee exploitation in the distanced past. We must live in the present but should not forget about past. It is important to learn from the past incidents taken place with different organizations and better steps need to be taken in to considerations. Personal ego must not be there as every employee; subordinates are the assets for the organizations. Nepotism must not be there in a leading organization for the continuous and consistent growth. Profit cans not the only motto rather so many aspects should be understood and analyzed for being a world leader and maintaining the brand name of the organization. Spending crores of rupees in advertisement does not have any value without satisfying existing customers. Every organization grabes greater amount of the present customers than the new customers. Customer relationship management should be applied for the profitability of the organization. But the ego of “ I know and I am only one store house knowledge “ should be minimized. No body is perfect even having one competencies but the ceo’s thinking them as if Mr. Perfect in every dynamics is a stupid acknowledgement.
So dear blog viewers, it may seem like a fiction but it is a truth. If you are an entrepreneur, be careful before loosing your business as the earliest.

Thanking you,
Yours truly,
Dr.Rajib Kumar jena (Affectionately called as dr by friends)

Monday, October 10, 2011

Lost relationship: Inefficient time management and passion of presentation

Dear Blog viewers,
It takes 5 minutes to break the relationship but it takes many years to build up the relationship. It is really a great mistake on my part to bring a great misunderstanding to my relationship of five years with my most understanding sister. It was 21st September 2011 which was one of the most important and respectable day of my life. I and my most respectable sister who has been a great support till now for me were invited to attend a seminar on Management system in an organization. It was really a thrilling and spectacular day in my life. I could not believe myself as I was the chief guest of the day. There was also a big tragedy that we had been informed to participate on the topic of organizational structure. But we had to deliver on management system in an organization. The system was absolutely fantastic as students had presented their talk on the topic followed by a question answer session. One of the students asked me about the definition of the organization. But I could not give the exact answer on the definitions and some of the students were not satisfied with my answer including a faculty. But later on I delivered the best talk on that day with the feedback on the students’ performance. Mean while I had forgotten that one of the guest were left to speak. But I had already consumed one hour at the cost of the most valuable time shared by my sweet sister but it is absolutely true that I feel insulted for committing mistake of not completing my talk in time and hurting the chief speaker of the day. But at the time of the delivering my talk, I had so much engrossed on the topic that even I had forgotten myself.Obiviously it would hurt the person who had given me the opportunity to participate. For the first time I hurt some one without having any intention who is always respectable and deserves appreciation for considering me as her younger brother. It is really sad that I was so much crazy to speak that I kept on delivering speech approximately one or more than an hour. I had lost myself on that day. When I realized that I had crossed my time limitation, the seminar was over. Neither students nor college authority did instruct me anything regarding the timing while delivering talk on my presentation predict as if they were enjoying with full heart. I am not able to forgive myself for my inefficient time management on that day. I am obliviously admitting that I am the culprit to give the pain to my co-speaker but it is true from my bottom of my heart that I have done it unknowly not knowingly. I hope that my blog viewers atleast would forgive for my mistake. The day my didi denied to talk, meet and pick up my call, I had decided not to attend any events or participate on any presentation but I could not stick to my commitment for my crazy passion of delivering speech and participating on all those events. I will never forget to manage my time efficiently as I have already lost my relationship at the cost of passion to speak. But one thing has been clear from the mistake that how much I am passionate about the orating.

Dear friends, but I am still not able to forgive myself for committing such mistake for passion and with my sister who used to love my like anything and providing me mental support in each and every moment. She is non-other than didi as I am not daring to mention her name without her prior permission to do so. Though she or all my blog readers would not forgive me but god may forgive me as he knows very well that the mistake was done without any preplan or any worst intention.
Thanking you all,
Best regards,
Dr.Rajib (Affectionately called by friends)

Saturday, September 10, 2011


Dear blog viewers,
Every B-School student’s dream is to earn huge package, maintain bank balance and gratify the dream of parents as well as self. It is not the mistake of themselves but the mistakes of false information given by the training and placements department in order to attract as many students as possible though students may not be deserving to pursue the studies in that college.Ultimately, b-school itself is loosing its status and bench mark. It is a pathetic situation that the dignity of education has come down to such a level that so called educationists are forgetting that they are spoiling the dream of so Many students for their benefits. These educationists are non other than the directors or owners of so called reputed b-schools having so many authorizations which have not earned by the standard of the college but the bribe given to the concerned authorization authority.corruptio has reached to the max in a b-school since admission to convocation. Even the companies which are coming to the so many b-schools for placements are fraud who is never sticking to their commitments given at the time of the campus recruitments. It is not only politicians or bureaucrats but also the corporate are corrupted. Life of a b-school students become hell after crossing the gate of the b-school.Apart from iims,iits,xaviers or some of the reputed b-schools,maximum college’s recruitment partners are horrible. Neither colleges nor the corporate have the capacity to put the right candidate in to right position. But both the college and corporate who are true friends in terms of mutual benefits blame students that they don’t have employability or competencies but truth is absolutely different. The reality is that neither the college management nor the so called corporate have the capability to hire or give right placements. The truth of these two categories is unbelievable. A b-school owner can be a thief, truck association’s owner and so many demons etc.It is one side of the coin and another side of the coin is top level management of the company who believes truth, trust and transparency are applicable for the clients, vendors and lower level executives. But the transparency of these top level management is that a BSC graduate can be a marketing manager, BSC graduate can be an HRD officer, commerce graduate can be a training development manager and a DTP operator can be Business Development Manager. But these category managers always need MBAS from reputed B-schools to be their subordinates. This is the bitter truth of the internal story of the so many corporates. So the dignity of the MBAs are sold at the cost of the few salary which can be earned without any such expensive degree.So it is better not to have any salary, any boss and any job. The best alternative solutions can be entrepreneurship or selecting such professions which can be similar to the passion. There are so many options can be opted apart from these options. But it is the Clarian call to the victimized or would be victimized students to think of their dignity and own potentials very well. It is better not to be in a job where a boss judges his subordinate to dispatch the materials to the clients at the cost of the subordinate’s best presentation in the presence of the management. It is also analyzed that resigning from the job which permits to lead a life of a beggar in a metro as well as not to have a blind and man of partial boss.

So dear friends, there is no need to have such kind of boss, job and salary. Just lead the life with family members and find the way to lead the decent life. Because if one door is closed, there so many doors are opened. So sunrise may be late but sunset is sure.
Thanking you,
Yours passionately,
Rajib Kumar Jena

Friday, September 2, 2011


Dear blog viewers,
 Life is full of relationship. Every body is in chain of relationship. Relationship is a matter of truth, trust and transparency. No body likes to be in relation with some one who dose not respect the feelings and emotions of the beloved one. Though the world has been full of materialism but true relationship is above the give and take relationship.Ralization comes in the passage of experience and exchange of the thought and internal feelings. The most important objective of this blog is to remind the viewers about how we realize the worth of everything in the absence of it. I must explain it with all the practical experience of myself as well as of my friends and relatives. In the presence of our best friends, we fail to understand and uncertain conflict and understanding wash away the friendship which used to be considered as unbreakable as well as unbeatable and stronger than the destruction image of the Tsunami. But their absence in our life really makes us understand their value and affection towards us. Let me start my own experience in love and friendship. My loved one was rosy. She was my best friend.Our friendship was much more than the love but I can’t say like that because friendship itself is the flow of love and affections. During the period of our relationship, we used to carry on so many misunderstandings but it used to be solved. We used to share so many valuable things but now I am realizing the importance of our friendship and love. But it is a matter of the regret that an uncertain storm came in to our relationship.The uncertain storm is non-other than the boy friend and best friend of my girl friend and best friend. It was really a great turning point of my life as I understood later on of my broken and destroyed relationship with me . I am not sure what her mental status towards me is as she is in a new fantastic relationship but I do miss her and her so many guidance. I would like to mention a small but beautiful example.Durig our relationship, she used to guide me preparing the luggage’s before going to appear entrance examinations as well as journey for picnics and other places. She used to guide me in taking all the important necessary things with me for the journey. It is a unique experience of my life. Even till the day, I feel her absence while start long journey and her support. During her presence, I used to feel bit bad about her all those advices. It is really the fact that her absence in my life has enhanced her importance and her necessity and importance. Her friendship has made me realized her worth in her absence. This is a glance of my relationship though there are so many events during my romantic life. The next best example is my tenure in North Hostel, Balasore.Gobinda was my room mate but malay, presently junior scientist used to spend a lot of time in my room. During my graduation second year and third year, I was so much engrossed in the relationship with rosy that I was far away from the reality and practicality of life. Though gobinda and Malay were junior to me but they had tried their best to bring me to pragmatic world but I had not listened to them but now gobinda is in Balasore and Malay is in Kolkata and I am in Mumbai. We are far away from each other but I miss them and realize their absence in my life. Last but the least example is my corporate life @ Thyrocare Technologies Limited, Navimumbai.Basically my KRA was project management and data management. Though I am no more in that organization but my boss and team mates are realizing my absence in the data management and project management though during my staying in that organisaton,my boss was very much harsh towards me. It is true that absence is only the matter of realization and remembering the dignity of some one.

So, don’t neglect your present relationship or present work. Enjoy it with full spirit and enthusiasm.
Thanking you,
Yours passionately,
Rajib Kumar jena