Friday, September 3, 2010

Personality Development


Personality is the quality of a person. So it’s rightly defined as person plus quality. The quality may be spiritual, emotional, intellectual and physical dimensions which should be presentable. Some time we say someone has great personality and some one has no personlaty.Personality lies in our disposal and how we are representing it matters. We say Amitabh Bachan is having Mega Personality.But the fact is his attractive acting and several years struggling to be
a great actor which transforms him into a great icon. But personality is relatively stable and permanent aspect of a person. It can not be changed but can be modified effectively.

Personality profile:
There are basically five types of personality profile which influences the self image of a person. They are mentioned in below.

1. Extrovertion (Extroversion v Introversion)
3. Tough-mindedness (Objective v Subjective)
2. Anxiety (Anxious v Confident
4. Independence (Assertive v Co-operative)
5. Control (Conscientious v Flexible)

One needs to analyze where he stands in terms of the above profiles and he might face difficulty or may get success for his skills but certain facts needs to be taken care while one wants all round development of his life.

 Know yourself
 A positive self image
 Believe in yourself
 Rediscover yourself
 Discovers others around you
 Focus on success
 Live and act for where you are going

The famous psychologist and author of the book, “Games People Play”, late Dr Eric Berne, exploded the attitudes of people toward themselves and others. Through research and observation, he identified 4 attitudes to life:
1. I am not ok, you are not ok.(The Sulk)
2. I am ok, you are not ok.(The Arrogant)
3. I am not ok, you are ok.(The Loser)
4. You are ok,I am ok.(The Winner)

The above Facts really happen with our life but we have to be winner and we should not be an obstacle for others to be winner. So certain guidelines we need to follow to get success in our life. Let’s have a look on that.

1. Be ambitious
2. Set goals
3. Don’t be afraid of mistakes
4. Have a positive attitude
5. Don’t give up your efforts



So friends………………………..


“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”Swami vivekananda

With Best Regards.
Dr.Rajib

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