HABITS DESTINE THE DESTINATIONS

Dear Blog viewers,

                                It is true that

                                          “Your beliefs become your thoughts,

                                             Your thoughts become your words,

                                             Your words become your actions,

                                             Your actions become your habits,

                                             Your habits become your values,

                                             Your values become your destiny.”

                                                                                                        ― Mahatma Gandhi

The basic difference between a failed person and a successful one is the cultivation of good and bad habits. Everyone has specific some sorts of habits which have been regularised since a long time. But after a long period of time, those habits become as usual activity of a person but he fails to understand that it was only built up by himself or herself. A new habit becomes the as usual habit of a person after the systematic and scientific practices. So everybody has got the specific objectives in life but may not the stagnate one. But we have unlimited wants and limited resources. If one goal is accomplished, then another goal comes and stands in front of us. So a wise person holds those targets of life as per the priority. Thus each goal is accompanied by specific regular activities. Those activities may be new and difficult one but it becomes a tiny one in front of the deadline. These are basically mentality and deapth of the necessity. One can achieve it if one has the strong passion and burning desires to find the destination. So it is rightly told that “Just do it! First you make your habits and then your habits make you!” ― Lucas Remmerswaal, The A-Z of 13 Habits .So we should start beginning whatever we desire to do, it may be good or bad. It depends on our decision and what we want to do. We must take initiatives to be habituated with undertaken new habits to knock the door of the ambition. “We become what we repeatedly do.” ― Sean Covey, The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Teens. It is absolutely true that we become what we repeatedly do.Repetation of an activity in a regular mode is called a habit. If we make irregularities in our actitivity,it cannot be converted in to habit. "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but habit.Aristotle.Lets know how to break up bad habits and form good habits as well as how to form next new habits to move ahead in life without remaining complacent with one mission. So it is rightly stated that "A nail is driven out by another nail. Habit is overcome by habit."Desiderius Erasmus. There are so many people surrounded by so many virtues and evils. If we would like to delete a wrong habit one, we have to take up a good habit to nail out the wrong one .The most unique aspect of my blogging is about sharing my own experiences and wisdom.Once upon a time in my very early school days,i was associated with worst friend circles and involved with so many wrong activities. I had to pay the price of demotion in my studies and deprived of getting first division only due to the lack of seven marks.Every body was shocked at my home.Then i changed my school and study place. The most important fact is changing my persisting regular activities. Though it took some months to recover but i succeeded in my determination by nailing the bad habits with the acquisition of good virtues. Let me share another experience about losing my blogging since a long time. My asbm room mate, room no 1030 and Hostel no 10 reminded my blogging while just having his kind attention on my blog out of his busy schedule. He is none other than Mr, Dr.Love guru Niel.I had really procrastinated my one of the best blogging@www.rajibjena.blogspot.com. When i started blogging, it became a titanic issue and took much time to draft an article. But i am sure that it is going to very smooth. There was a time while i was not good enough in writing. But only blogging helped me to reshape my writing skills. So my desire of being a good writer became successful only by adopting good habits like blogging. So this is how habit habituates the destination of life. Let me give another example of Dr..Niel.Dr.Niel was having so much expertise in IT. He was an instructor of computer classes. He achieved the intelligence and knowledge in IT after his spontaneous and regular practice in the area of his destination.I am confident that he has having more skills in IT than our so called IT Profs in ASBM.The most important fact of Dr.Niel is his habit of finding out so many tricks on love management.He has been a perfect love manager as per his regular research on different aspects of love.I can throw a challenge that my best room mate ever seen in my hostel life can publish book on love and romance management.His regular invention has made him an efficient master.This called the habit of creating destination.  It is last but not least example. It is my pleasure to introduce Mr.Nihar Ranjan Mohanty, My best friend. He is the most perfect example for this article. When we joined Asian School Of Business Management, Bhubaneswar, we are instructed not only to speak in English only but also to have so many assignments .English was taken as first language in ASBM campus.Mr.Mohanty was not that much fluency in English but he took the initiatives of having practice in hostel. He formed a group named as Finishing School in hostel and electrified enthusiasm among our group to have practice for GD,PI and many more activities which were still dancing in my memory. He not only limited in having practice in group but also used have practice in night 12 am in top floor of our hostel. Everybody was astonished after few months of his practice and fluency in English. That was outstanding experience of my life. So it is true that habits habituate destinations.

                                  “Sow a thought, and you reap an act;

                                   Sow an act, and you reap a habit;

                                   Sow a habit, and you reap a character;

                                   Sow a character, and you reap a destiny.”

                                                                                                    ― Samuel Smiles

So friends, please take care of our habits and your habits will take care of your destiny.

This blog is dedicated to my best room mate in hostel life Mr.Niel for reminding me to restart my passion of blogging as i had postponed my habit of writting since may,2012 and also i may remind to my viewers that this blog was created by Dr.niel in ASBM.

Thanking you,

Best regards,

Dr Rajib(Affectionately called by friends)